Love in the Digital Age

Wedding vs Marriage — Part One 8 Funny Truths Your Planner Forgot to Mention The wedding was perfect. The photos? Unreal. The vows? Emotional. The dance floor? Unhinged in the best way. Then the music stopped. The guests left. The dress went back in the box. And marriage showed up in sweatpants. Here are the […]

Why Scorekeeping Is a Boundary Problem (Not a Personality Flaw) Here’s what changed everything: Scorekeeping isn’t about being petty. Instead, it’s about unclear boundaries and unspoken expectations. When boundaries are missing, several things happen: Needs don’t get named Effort isn’t negotiated Appreciation isn’t structured Resentment fills the gap As a result, one person over-functions while

Screens in Bed: The New Silent Marriage Killer Screens in Bed: The New Silent Marriage Killer We Used to Talk Before Sleep. Now We Just Scroll I remember when bedtime meant laughter. Inside jokes whispered in the dark. Fingers tangled under blankets. Now? The glow of two screens. Silence loud enough to scream. Our Backs

Digital Cheating: Is Emotional Texting Infidelity? Digital Cheating: Is Emotional Texting Infidelity? He Said ‘She’s Just a Friend’ But He Texted Her Every Night He never touched her. But she knew everything. His dreams. His frustrations. The things I used to hear. Now? She hears them first. And I’m left reading silence. Emotional Intimacy Isn’t

I Met My Spouse on an App – The Good, Bad & Ugly I Met My Spouse on an App – The Good, Bad & Ugly It Started With a Swipe No setup. No mutual friends. Just an algorithm that said we were “87% compatible.” He messaged first. It was dry. I almost unmatched. But

When Likes Matter More Than Love When Likes Matter More Than Love We Used to Talk. Now We Just Scroll Beside Each Other We’re in the same room. But we’re not connected. He’s glued to his phone. I’m checking who watched my Story. We’ve traded conversations for notifications. And called it “togetherness.” He Compliments Influencers

My Partner Never Posts Me, Should I Worry? My Partner Never Posts Me, Should I Worry? He Posts His Brunch. His Gym. His Dog. Not Me Every scroll shows me what matters to him. His protein shake. His playlist. His outfit of the day. But me? Ghosted. Invisible. Private, not special. I’ve Been in His

    “Why Did You Just Shut Down Like That?” He didn’t yell. He just raised his voice. And suddenly, I was 7 years old again. Frozen. Small. Panicked. Not because of him. Because of what came before him. That’s the thing about trauma: It doesn’t knock. It shows up, sits in your marriage, and

    Is Monogamy Outdated? The Case for Ethical Non-Monogamy Monogamy isn’t sacred. It’s a social contract—and it’s breaking people. Let’s get real: You weren’t born wanting one partner forever. You were taught to. By fairy tales, religion, movies, and fear. For many today, balancing love and life means rethinking outdated models. 1. Monogamy Was

Why Your Relationship Doesn’t Look Like Instagram They smile. They kiss in matching outfits. They vacation in Bali. They caption it: “My person. Forever.” And you believe it. You double tap. You ache. You ask yourself, “Why doesn’t my relationship look like that?” Here’s the brutal truth: It doesn’t look like that because it isn’t