The Church Ministry Toolkit

Stop Counseling Marriages On Instinct.Start Running A Ministry With A System.

The complete Church Edition™ of Marriage Is Business™ — a full marriage ministry in a box, built for pastors and ministry leaders who are tired of improvising premarital counseling one couple at a time.

Get The Church Ministry Toolkit — $297

Instant Digital Access · Congregation-Wide License Included

4
Complete Ministry Programs
Couples You Can Serve
1
License, One Time

Why Marriage Ministry Burns Pastors Out

You Didn't Train For This.
You Just Got Handed It.

01

Every couple gets a different version of your counsel.

Not because you don't care — because there's no written curriculum, so it comes out differently every time, depending on your week.

02

You marry them. Then they disappear until there's a crisis.

There's no structured follow-up in year one — the exact window where most preventable marriage breakdowns actually start.

03

A couple in crisis needs a protocol. You're improvising one.

Recovery conversations happen in your office, from memory, with no structured recovery plan to hand them on the way out.

Built From The Marriage Is Business Methodology™

Marriage Is Business™ was written by Dr. Eunice Irewole, PhD — the framework that told 1,000+ readers the truth their marriage counselor wouldn't say. The Church Ministry Toolkit takes that same methodology and builds it into a complete ministry system — one you can hand to your team, not just carry in your own head.

Why This Exists

Most churches run marriage ministry on whatever the pastor remembers from their own marriage, plus a few borrowed sermon illustrations. The Church Ministry Toolkit replaces instinct with a documented system — one your whole ministry team can run consistently, long after any single leader moves on.

Inside The Toolkit

The Church Edition™ — Four Complete Ministry Programs

Every stage of a couple's journey through your church, covered by a named, repeatable program.

Program 01

Premarital Counseling Program™

A structured curriculum for every engaged couple that walks through your doors — so premarital counseling stops depending on which week you're having.

  • Session-by-session facilitator guide
  • Adapted Premarital Due Diligence assessments for group or one-on-one delivery
  • Printable handouts licensed for every couple you counsel
Program 02

Newlywed Success Program™

Structured follow-up for the first year of marriage — the window where most preventable breakdowns quietly begin, and where most churches go silent.

  • First-year check-in schedule and session prompts
  • Early-warning indicators drawn from the Marriage Risk Register™
  • Built to plug into an existing newlywed or young-marrieds ministry
Program 03

Marriage Recovery Toolkit™

A structured protocol for couples in crisis — so a recovery conversation in your office becomes a documented plan, not just a conversation.

  • Trust Rebuilding Protocol™ and Marriage Recovery Action Plan™, adapted for pastoral delivery
  • 90-day stabilization structure couples leave your office holding
  • Clear guidance on when to refer out to licensed clinical support
Program 04

Marriage Ministry Implementation Guide™

The guide that ties the other three programs into an actual ministry — how to structure it, staff it, and keep it running after any one leader moves on.

  • Ministry team training and facilitator onboarding structure
  • Annual program calendar built around the other three programs
  • Governance model so the ministry survives leadership transitions
Included With Your License

Direct Access To The Core Assessment Center™

Marriage Health Assessment™ — for any congregant, any stage Compatibility Assessment™ — for premarital sessions Trust Score™ & Emotional Safety Assessment™ — for recovery cases Marriage Constitution Template™ — for newlywed goal-setting

What Changes

Before The Toolkit. After The Toolkit.

Before
Premarital counseling quality depends on your schedule that week
Newlyweds vanish from your radar until there's a problem
Crisis conversations happen from memory, with nothing written down
The whole ministry lives in your head — and leaves when you do
After
Every couple gets the same documented Premarital Counseling Program™
Newlyweds move through a structured first-year check-in schedule
Crisis couples leave with a written 90-day Marriage Recovery Action Plan™
Your ministry team can run all four programs without you in the room

What This Actually Costs Your Ministry

Compare It To Building This Curriculum Yourself

Option Typical Cost
Hiring a curriculum consultant to build one program $1,500–$5,000
A licensed premarital counseling certification course $500–$1,200
One preventable divorce in your congregation — pastoral hours, referrals, fallout Immeasurable
The Church Ministry Toolkit — 4 programs, congregation-wide license $297

The Offer

Run A Real Marriage Ministry.
Not An Improvised One.

Congregation License

The Church Ministry Toolkit

All four programs, licensed for your whole ministry team, with no per-couple fee.

  • Premarital Counseling Program™ — full facilitator guide
  • Newlywed Success Program™ — first-year follow-up structure
  • Marriage Recovery Toolkit™ — crisis protocol and 90-day plan
  • Marriage Ministry Implementation Guide™ — how to run it all as one ministry
  • Congregation-wide license — use with unlimited couples, no per-session fee
  • Bonus: Direct access to the Marriage Health Assessment™ & Compatibility Assessment™
  • Bonus: Marriage Constitution Template™ for newlywed goal-setting sessions
  • Bonus: 20% off Marriage Coach Certification for your ministry team
$460 $297

Launch Pricing · One-Time Payment · Congregation License

Or 3 payments of $109 — choose at checkout

Get The Church Ministry Toolkit — $297

Run the Premarital Counseling Program™ with your next engaged couple. If it doesn't bring more structure and consistency to your counseling than what you're doing today — we'll refund every dollar within 30 days.

Read This Before You Buy

Built For Ministry Leaders,
Not Casual Browsers.

This Is For You If —
You're a pastor, elder, or ministry leader running (or starting) marriage ministry at your church
You want premarital counseling standardized across your whole team, not just in your own head
You need a documented protocol for couples in crisis, not another improvised conversation
You want a ministry that survives you — one a successor could pick up and run
This Is Not For You If —
You're a licensed therapist working with paying clients — the Therapist Toolkit is built for that instead
You're an individual couple looking for your own premarital prep — the Premarital Toolkit is built for that instead
You're not currently in a position to counsel or lead couples through this material

For The Ones Building Ministry, Not Just Attending It

You Already Know Another Pastor Who Needs This.

Pastors talk to other pastors. Every toolkit comes with a referral link built for exactly that conversation.

01

Get Your Toolkit

Instant access to all four programs, plus a personal referral link at checkout.

02

Send It To Your Network

The co-pastor at your church, the marriage ministry lead at another congregation, the friend who keeps asking how you run yours.

03

Get Rewarded For It

They get 15% off their license. You earn credit toward Marriage Coach Certification for your ministry team.

The Manifesto

Love Is The Purpose.

Structure Is The Protection.

Legacy Is The Outcome.

We Choose Design Over Luck.

We Choose Governance Over Chaos.

We Choose To Build An Institution.

Last Word

Every Couple You Counsel Deserves The Same System.
Not Whichever Version Of You Shows Up That Week.

Four programs. One ministry team. A marriage ministry your church can actually rely on — long after any one leader moves on.

Get The Church Ministry Toolkit — $297

Before You Buy

What Pastors Ask Before Bringing This In

Does this license cover our whole ministry team, or just me?

Your whole team. The congregation-wide license lets any facilitator on your marriage ministry team use all four programs with unlimited couples — no per-couple or per-counselor fee.

Do we need Marriage Coach Certification to use this?

No. The toolkit is built to be used as-is by pastors and ministry leaders. Certification is a separate, optional track for those who want formal standing beyond the congregation.

Is this a replacement for licensed clinical counseling?

No. The Marriage Recovery Toolkit™ includes clear guidance on when a couple's situation calls for referral to a licensed therapist — this equips pastoral care, it doesn't replace clinical intervention.

Can we adapt the language for our denomination or context?

Yes. The materials are provided as editable documents so your team can adjust language and illustrations to fit your congregation's context.

How is this delivered?

Instant digital download immediately after checkout — your whole team can start using session materials the same day.