Jerry Oloture Akor

Why the Most Successful Generation on Paper Is Also the Most Marriage-Averse in Modern History Marriage rates among younger Americans have fallen dramatically over the past several decades. Commentators often describe this as a crisis of commitment. Dr. Eunice Irewole sees another possibility: an entirely rational response from a generation that watched an institution struggle […]

The Term Every American Couple Is Using and Almost Nobody Is Fixing He “accidentally” shrinks every load of laundry. She “forgets” how the thermostat works after eleven years in the same house. The internet has a name for it now: weaponized incompetence — doing a task badly enough, often enough, that someone else eventually takes

Neither Side of the Internet’s Favorite Fight Is Actually Talking About Your Marriage Every few months, American social media erupts into the same war. On one side: the trad wife aesthetic — homemade bread, soft lighting, a husband who “provides.” On the other: the girlboss marriage — two six-figure incomes, a Notion calendar, and a

The End-of-September Declaration — What Has Been Built, What Is Coming, and the Invitation That Will Change Your Life Three Months. Sixty Posts. One Institution. One Name. Some months ago, Dr. Eunice Irewole and the HtohTalks Institution began the most sustained, strategically designed, and intellectually substantive public conversation in the history of the marriage education