When Likes Matter More Than Love When Likes Matter More Than Love We Used to Talk. Now We Just Scroll Beside Each Other We’re in the same room. But we’re not connected. He’s glued to his phone. I’m checking who watched my Story. We’ve traded conversations for notifications. And called it “togetherness.” He Compliments Influencers […]
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My Partner Never Posts Me, Should I Worry? My Partner Never Posts Me, Should I Worry? He Posts His Brunch. His Gym. His Dog. Not Me Every scroll shows me what matters to him. His protein shake. His playlist. His outfit of the day. But me? Ghosted. Invisible. Private, not special. I’ve Been in His
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Emotional Affairs: The Invisible Infidelity Emotional Affairs: The Invisible Infidelity It Didn’t Start as Cheating, It Started as Connection She was just a friend. A coworker. Someone who “got” him. They shared memes. Then stories. Then secrets. And suddenly, he was sharing more with her than with me. He Didn’t Touch Her, But He Let
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My Husband Cries and I Don’t Know How to Handle It My Husband Cries and I Don’t Know How to Handle It The First Time He Cried, I Froze It was a Tuesday night. We were arguing about something small. Suddenly, his voice cracked. Then he cried. Not sniffles. Tears. Shoulders shaking. Hands trembling. And
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Why Women Need More Than ‘I Love You’ to Feel Safe Why Women Need More Than ‘I Love You’ to Feel Safe He Says He Loves Me, But I Still Don’t Feel Safe He tells me every day. “I love you.” In texts. In kisses. In passing. But love without consistency? Feels like a promise
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Emotionally Unavailable Husbands: A Cry for Connection He Doesn’t Yell. He Doesn’t Hit. He Just… Vanishes. Not physically. Emotionally. He’s in the room. But he’s not with you. You talk. He nods. You cry. He stiffens. You beg. He blanks. Emotional Absence Hurts More Than Loud Fights It’s the emptiness in his eyes. The long
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My Spouse Is a Great Provider but a Cold Partner My Spouse Is a Great Provider but a Cold Partner He Pays Every Bill But Can’t Pay Me Attention The lights are on. The fridge is full. The mortgage is paid. But the silence between us? Costs more than rent ever could. He’s a good
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I Love Him. But I Miss Being Seen He still says “I love you.” Still kisses me goodbye. Still sleeps next to me. But I miss the look he used to give me across the room. The “you’re everything” look. Now it’s more like: “Did you grab the laundry?” And I feel more
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When Your Spouse Is Jealous of Your Success The Night I Shrunk My Win I got promoted. Big time. I walked into the kitchen, champagne in hand, glowing like a woman on fire. My husband looked up from his phone, smiled weakly, and said: “Wow. Must be nice.” The bubbles went flat. So did my
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“Why Did You Just Shut Down Like That?” He didn’t yell. He just raised his voice. And suddenly, I was 7 years old again. Frozen. Small. Panicked. Not because of him. Because of what came before him. That’s the thing about trauma: It doesn’t knock. It shows up, sits in your marriage, and
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