Jerry Oloture Akor

Why ‘Me Time’ Is Tearing Couples Apart

    Why ‘Me Time’ Is Tearing Couples Apart It Sounds Healthy, Until It Becomes Emotional Separation in Disguise You hear it everywhere: “Take time for yourself.” “Prioritize self-care.” “Make space. Protect your peace.” Sounds wise, right? Until ‘me time’ becomes a polite excuse to emotionally check out of your relationship. Because here’s the harsh […]

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Putting Your Kids First Is Killing Your Intimacy

    Putting Your Kids First Is Killing Your Intimacy You Didn’t Have Kids to Become Roommates With the Person You Married The lie sounds noble: “Put the kids first.” Make them the center of your world. Sacrifice everything—including your relationship. But here’s the brutal truth: When your marriage becomes a background character to your

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Why Hustle Culture Is Secretly Ending Your Marriage Your Grind Is Killing Your Connection

Why Hustle Culture Is Secretly Ending Your Marriage Your Grind Is Killing Your Connection You wake up early. You hustle hard. You build the brand, climb the ladder, chase the legacy. But here’s the cost no one talks about: While you’re out there “providing,” your marriage is starving. You’re showing up for the dream—but disappearing

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Is Monogamy Outdated? The Case for Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Is Monogamy Outdated? The Case for Ethical Non-Monogamy Monogamy isn’t sacred. It’s a social contract—and it’s breaking people. Let’s get real: You weren’t born wanting one partner forever. You were taught to. By fairy tales, religion, movies, and fear. For many today, balancing love and life means rethinking outdated models. 1. Monogamy Was

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Sleeping in Separate Beds: The Secret to a Stronger Marriage

    Sleeping Apart, Staying Close They’ll call it a red flag. They’ll say your marriage is broken. They’ll assume something’s wrong with your sex life. But here’s the truth: Sleeping apart could be the smartest, sexiest, most sanity-saving decision you’ll ever make as a couple. Because modern love doesn’t thrive on forced proximity. It

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Falling Out of Love In a Relationship Might Be the Beginning—Not the End

    Falling Out of Love Might Be the Beginning—Not the End You thought the butterflies would last forever. You thought passion would stay consistent. You thought love would always feel easy. Wrong. What they don’t tell you is this: Falling out of love might be the beginning—not the end. Because only when the fantasy

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