Jerry Oloture Akor

Is liking an ex’s picture cheating? What about deleting messages, hiding a friendship, or flirting “just for fun”? The internet has a label for all of it. But a label is not a relationship standard. Someone likes an ex’s picture. Their spouse sees it and asks a question. The answer comes quickly: “It was just

Sometimes the argument is about a costume. Sometimes it is about trust, autonomy, respect, and the rules neither partner realized they were expected to follow. It starts with a costume. One spouse plans a Halloween outfit that feels fun, bold, or expressive. The other sees it and immediately has questions. Maybe the outfit is more

The Sunk Cost Fallacy Is Running Your Marriage and No One Told You Its Name Every founder knows the sunk cost fallacy in business — the instinct to keep funding a failing product because you’ve already spent so much on it. Almost nobody recognizes the exact same pattern running their marriage. “We’ve been together seventeen